tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7262794.post6792872269801794969..comments2023-07-12T08:12:14.690-07:00Comments on Bits and Pieces: Hold your BabiesJessicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13710413791490462220noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7262794.post-61611175616910793182010-06-15T13:45:18.197-07:002010-06-15T13:45:18.197-07:00There are definitely days that I want to never get...There are definitely days that I want to never get out of bed, I want to ignore the children completely and let them go Lord of the Flies.<br />But then there are days that are totally awesome and I never want to let them go EVER. Then someone will complain that their shoes are too tight, or not tight enough or they don't want to wear that shirt or these socks don't match EXAAAAACTLY whah whah whah!!!<br /><br />And I fantasize about being in Mexico.<br />I just need to remember to appreciate their little years because soon they'll be teenagers and hate me even more.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13710413791490462220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7262794.post-35829454282648376742010-06-15T11:48:50.986-07:002010-06-15T11:48:50.986-07:00I don't think you need to feel guilty because ...I don't think you need to feel guilty because you get annoyed or whatever with your kids. *I* get annoyed with my kids. I do not think that losing a child means you suddenly become immune to their whining and not sleeping at night and whining and general shenanigans, and think snot being spread on your face is the greatest thing ever. I don't want people to look at me and then hug their kids. Hug and appreciate your kids regardless (which I know you do!).<br /><br />But, that is my opinion and I do think I am in the minority. I know there are people who lost kids and/or struggled with infertility and think they are better parents than those who haven't suffered through it. I don't buy that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com