Saturday, June 13, 2009

When a man hits a's open season on assholes.

Here's a question for all of you, maybe you can help me answer this one...
WHY in the name of heaven and earth would a woman get BACK TOGETHER with a guy that she recently divorced AND had prosecuted for domestic violence? Why? WHY???
The pickins can't be that slim and she couldn't possibly be THAT desperate for love? Could she?
When I saw them together the other day I had to pick my jaw up off the floor. This was, of course, AFTER she had told me a few months back how abusive he was and how glad she was to be out of there and that she had a new boyfriend and all that...

She didn't talk to me at all the other day, HE did. I was appalled. It was very hard to walk that fine line between keeping my mouth shut and grabbing a can of soup off the store shelf and punching him in the face with it. Violence is bad, I know. But beating the shit out of a wife that's just poetry.

Anyway, I hope that none of my readers are in a situation like this and if you are, get out now. A man who hits a woman is a lowlife coward. A scum-sucking bottomfeeder. A gutless turd.
Why would you want to kiss a turd?


Jessica said...

As a therapist, I dealt with stuff like this a lot. It's an addiction to another person sometimes, the same way you can get addicted to drugs or alcohol. Sometimes the pain of being apart is worse to them than the violence (or whatever other bad thing they're putting up with).

Anonymous said...

What Jessica said. And you just hope he's changed. Like, he abused her when he was drunk, and got help for his addiction.

Jessica said...

I do hope that something has changed, but knowing this particular "person" sadly I'm sure that it's just a matter of time before old patterns emerge.
I just hope she doesn't stick around long enough to have to deal with it.